Grieving the Loss of Your Pet

We know how deeply a beloved pet can touch our lives.
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Whether their passing is sudden or expected, their loss can bring a very real and profound sense of grief.

It is important to acknowledge these emotions and give yourself the time and space to honour them.
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You are not alone in this difficult journey. We are here to support you every step of the way.

Emotional responses at the end of life

  • Denial
  • Guilt
  • Depression
  • Anger and irritability
  • Sadness
  • Emotional numbness
  • Helplessness and/or injustice
  • Shock
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The grieving process

Denial

A conscious or unconscious refusal to accept that something is true, such as a diagnosis, its consequences, the severity of a situation, or the need for intervention.

Anger

A physical or emotional response through which a person may try to place blame on someone. This may often be directed toward the veterinarian.

Bargaining

A process of negotiation in which a person attempts to delay the inevitable or distance themselves from the reality of the situation.

Depression

A feeling of losing control or experiencing hopelessness in relation to the situation.

Acceptance

A sense of stability or resignation as the person begins to actively engage with their life and their new reality.

Some strategies to help You through grief

  • Grieve as a family, including children in the process
  • Acknowledge and express your emotions
  • Avoid isolating yourself
  • Try not to blame yourself or feel guilty
  • Talk openly about the situation and your needs
  • Avoid unhealthy coping mechanisms, such as alcohol
  • Re-establish a daily routine
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Support available

Free Guide — Navigating the Loss of Your Pet: 4 Tools to Help You Through

A simple, practical guide to support you through the more difficult moments.‍
‍You will be redirected to Karyn Bourbonnais’ website to download this free resource.

YouTube Channel

Discover a collection of videos on pet grief to help you recognize your emotions, better understand what you are going through, and feel supported along the way.

Complimentary SUPPORT SESSION

I offer complimentary 15-minute sessions to give you a space to talk about what you are going through and receive support during this difficult time. Click here to book a time directly through my calendar.

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Pet Grief Support

A compassionate space to connect with others who are experiencing or have experienced the loss of a beloved animal. Because feeling understood and supported can make a meaningful difference.